Tuesday, April 13, 2010

The waiting place

Last night as I was laying in bed reading this book to Tylie...I realized how much of this book reflects our life as of late. Particularly in the bold places...





Oh! The Places You’ll Go!
by the incomparable Dr. Seuss

Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!

You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the guy who’ll decide where to go.

You’ll look up and down streets. Look’em over with care. About some you will say, “I don’t choose to go there.” With your head full of brains and your shoes full of feet, you’re too smart to go down a not-so-good street.

And you may not find any you’ll want to go down. In that case, of course, you’ll head straight out of town. It’s opener there in the wide open air.

Out there things can happen and frequently do to people as brainy and footsy as you.

And when things start to happen, don’t worry. Don’t stew. Just go right along. You’ll start happening too.

Oh! The Places You’ll Go!

You’ll be on your way up!
You’ll be seeing great sights!
You’ll join the high fliers who soar to high heights.

You won’t lag behind, because you’ll have the speed. You’ll pass the whole gang and you’ll soon take the lead. Wherever you fly, you’ll be best of the best. Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.

Except when you don’t.
Because, sometimes, you won’t.

I’m sorry to say so but, sadly, it’s true that Bang-ups and Hang-ups can happen to you.

You can get all hung up in a prickle-ly perch. And your gang will fly on. You’ll be left in a Lurch.

You’ll come down from the Lurch with an unpleasant bump. And the chances are, then, that you’ll be in a Slump.

And when you’re in a Slump, you’re not in for much fun. Un-slumping yourself is not easily done.

You will come to a place where the streets are not marked. Some windows are lighted. But mostly they’re darked. A place you could sprain both your elbow and chin! Do you dare to stay out? Do you dare to go in? How much can you lose? How much can you win?

And if you go in, should you turn left or right…or right-and-three-quarters? Or, maybe, not quite? Or go around back and sneak in from behind? Simple it’s not, I’m afraid you will find, for a mind-maker-upper to make up his mind.

You can get so confused that you’ll start in to race down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace and grind on for miles across weirdish wild space, headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.

The Waiting Place…for people just waiting.

Waiting for a train to go or a bus to come, or a plane to go or the mail to come, or the rain to go or the phone to ring, or the snow to snow or waiting around for a Yes or No or waiting for their hair to grow. Everyone is just waiting.

Waiting for the fish to bite or waiting for wind to fly a kite or waiting around for Friday night or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake or a pot to boil, or a Better Break or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants or a wig with curls, or Another Chance. Everyone is just waiting.

No! That’s not for you!
Somehow you’ll escape all that waiting and staying. You’ll find the bright places where Boom Bands are playing. With banner flip-flapping, once more you’ll ride high! Ready for anything under the sky. Ready because you’re that kind of a guy!

Oh, the places you’ll go! There is fun to be done! There are points to be scored. There are games to be won. And the magical things you can do with that ball will make you the winning-est winner of all. Fame! You’ll be famous as famous can be, with the whole wide world watching you win on TV.

Except when they don’t. Because, sometimes, they won’t.

I’m afraid that some times you’ll play lonely games too. Games you can’t win ‘cause you’ll play against you.

All Alone!
Whether you like it or not, Alone will be something you’ll be quite a lot.

And when you’re alone, there’s a very good chance you’ll meet things that scare you right out of your pants. There are some, down the road between hither and yon, that can scare you so much you won’t want to go on.

But on you will go though the weather be foul. On you will go though your enemies prowl. On you will go though the Hakken-Kraks howl. Onward up many a frightening creek, though your arms may get sore and your sneakers may leak. On and on you will hike. And I know you’ll hike far and face up to your problems whatever they are.

You’ll get mixed up, of course, as you already know. You’ll get mixed up with many strange birds as you go. So be sure when you step. Step with care and great tact and remember that Life’s a Great Balancing Act. Just never forget to be dexterous and deft. And never mix up your right foot with your left.

And will you succeed?
Yes! You will, indeed!
(98 and ¾ percent guaranteed.)

Kid, you’ll move mountains!
So…be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray or Mordecai Ale Van Allen O’Shea, you’re off to Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So…get on your way!


We can't wait to make it out of the waiting place and on to bright places where boom bands are playing! Hopefully we will get there soon. In the meantime, I am so very grateful to have an amazing marriage and husband where we are able to lean on each other when the days seem extra long and rainy. I have so much to be grateful for. I am lucky.

Monday, April 12, 2010

Strike a pose

This is what happens when you leave my sister and Tylie alone for more that 15 minutes on a lazy Sunday afternoon. First they had a tea party and were talking in British accents. Then they got all dolled up.

OH GORGEOUS DARLING, JUST GORGEOUS.









































Tonight when I got home from a fireside (which was incredible) I told Tylie it was time to get ready for bed and say our prayers. She said "No Honey" I told her it was very important to tell Heavenly Father what you are thankful for. I asked who she was thankful for and she replied "Titi" (short for auntie, which she calls Bri). I asked her who else? "Jesus Christ" again, who else? "TITI!" okay okay, geese!














































Sunday, April 11, 2010

I see London, I see France

This is what we've been up to for the past week! Its been a big success and we are proud parents of this little pantie wearing princess...literally. We found this book Princess Potty, and it has to be the cutest little book ever. It comes with this tiara and jewel stickers so each time she goes, she gets to wear the tiara. If she actually does the deed, she gets a sticker to put on her tiara. She chose to put them right on her potty. Hey whatever works!


I never knew how much you could do in a bathroom! We have read about every book, played every game and sung every song I know, all while sitting on the pot!


On a side note, is anyone else's kids terrified of public restrooms? How in the heck do you get over that? The toilet is so big for their little bums! This is the only time she'll have accidents, and it's not because she won't tell us, it's because she won't sit on a public toilet! I don't like them myself but I've been trying to explain that when a girls gotta go she gotta go!

It been a lot of hard work...ask Ty! She has NEVER just fallen asleep like this. She won't even fall asleep to a movie, but after half a day of potty training this is how I found her.
P.S. Anyone in need of size 4 diapers? We just bought a big box about a week before we decided to potty train! Going once, going twice...

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Bunnies and eggs and baskets...oh my

HAPPY EASTER!





We COLORED...

we ADMIRED our work...



we HUNTED...






we had so much FUN...
and when it was all over we threw the biggest FIT I have EVER seen. I don't really blame her...I was really sad too.


Monday, March 22, 2010

I'm yelling


"Tylie come on, come get in the bath, hurry please! I'm not going to ask you again, come on! Don't make me come and get you!"














REALLY?! Looking out the window in the buff...enough said.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Jackpot

This is one of my all time favorite St. Patty day traditions that my mom has kept alive year after year! I think they are adorable!

And delicious
Happy St. Patrick's Day! Hope yours was as yummy as ours!

Monday, March 15, 2010

So...it's been a weekend about projects! There have been a few things that I have been wanting to get done for a while now. One being these bookshelves. Tylie loves to read, but every time we would go to grab a book they would all fall everywhere! It would leave me feeling very frustrated and annoyed! I saw these bookshelves on a friends blog (thanks Julie!) a while back and finally got to Home Depot to make it happen! It literally took about 5 minutes to put together. All it is- RAIN GUTTERS! Now let me sell you on these babies! I love that they are low enough for Tylie to reach, and I love that you can see the cover of the book...because let's be honest, we ALL judge a book by it's cover! So here's how they turned out...



Since this project has been complete, all the girl has wanted to do is READ! I swear whoever invented these things is brilliant! She thinks it is so cool, and she always puts her book away before picking out a new one, fabulous!

Next project, converting Ty's crib into a toddler bed= Complete. She is loving having a big girl bed. Knock on wood, haven't had any problems with her getting out of bed and not sleeping, but i'm sure that will happen sooner or later!
One of the best things about having a big kid bed is jumping on her bed while singing... 5 little monkeys jumping on the bed, one fell off and bumped his head mama called the doctor and the doctor said, No more monkeys jumping on the bed!
So, I keep sneaking in her room at night because she sleeps so crazy, but 3 nights down and she has yet to fall out of her bed... Knocking on wood again!
And lastly, I caught Tylie calling Shane while he was at work...one of her favorite things to do. I'll translate for you...
"Hello Daddy. Hi! Hi daddy Hi! You at work? Okay... hmm daddy."